This page lists tributes to Rob that we received following his
death. There are pages featuring downloadable tracks
from two CDs he produced:
Pig Dyke Molly : The Music featuring the Pig Dyke band
Frost and Fire, an album he made with John Foreman on guitar.
I met Rob while dancing with Yaxley Morris and then he became the musician to the side. There was a change in the way the music was played and he was introducing his own tunes. After I had been away for a few weeks one time I could hear that tunes, that I knew, were different. They were developing. It was my first experience of 'live music'. Rob's tunes weren't written down, they weren't dots - on lines - on paper, the music was in the man and the man was in the music! His tunes and how he played them was so very special.
He was good at many things; he set very high standards for himself. Usually it was hell to get posters, designs, recordings, videos etc from him as he always wanted to improve them just that bit more.
He had an encyclopaedic knowledge (especially of military history) and was a great to have as a member of your quiz team, if you could drag him there!
His sense of humour and quick mind gave us some great times, especially when trying to write a script, as at Sidmouth. He was always along what ever tangent we were off on, and frequently two thoughts ahead, so that it seemed like that Two Ronnies'sketch 'Answering the question before it is asked.'
At the end of last year I was passing under a bridge with an unusual name and apt carving. I photographed it and sent the message. 'Passing under 'Grumpy Old Man Bridge.' How come you have a bridge named after you?' His reply was lightening fast and humorous. We weren't constantly in touch but there was always instant rapport.
I miss you Robin, it was joy to dance to your tunes. Your understanding and friendship lightened my life.
I will think of you, as I light a candle for you but I hear you say- - I know you Sadie it won't be one candle but will be 'forkandles'- and you will laugh in that way that only you did.
You had the last laugh, you are gone.
I have my memories; you are still with me, my friend.
We first met Rob at Straw Bear 2007. We had been to going this local event for about 5 years and had not failed to notice 'those dancers in the black & white' who seemed to be having the most fun. I wanted to join in the fun and occasion of it all and I made up my mind to approach someone. Anyway Rob was the person I approached in the school after the dancing. He was so enthusiastic and passionate, I wanted to join so much. He gave us details and we turned up at the allotted time and place. My daughter and I were welcomed by everyone and have now been part of the Pig Dyke family since then.
We have met some wonderful talented people like Rob and been to some great places and events that have so enriched our lives. Sadly we only knew him for a short time but one lasting memory is of Rob at his 50th Birthday party wanting us to sing 'Grumpy Birthday' rather than 'Happy Birthday' to him. His personality and his musical and artistic talents will be greatly missed but we're sure he will always be part of Pig Dyke in spirit.
Janet & Katey
Over the years mine and Rob Griggs paths crossed quite a lot in the small world that is the Morris.
As a dancer, dancing to Robs playing was always a joy, as he had that rare ability to lift a side, no matter how tired they were, or how mundane the occasion, simply by the joi-de-vivre of his playing. He was an enthusiast for his music, and an enthusiast for the dances and dancers he played his music for.
I cannot speak for the Molly world but for certain the Cotswold dancers have much to thank him for.
In latter years I had not danced much to his playing but Rob was always one with a little joke in response to my pretended avoidance of Pig Dyke. our exchanges over the years gave me a great deal of laughter and I will miss his presence at Straw Bear and other events that I studiously ignore Pig Dyke.
If he had a God I hope that God played music, and that Rob is now sat somewhere playing along.
Bunnies from Hell
I will never forget.
Till next time round, Sweet Scary Man.........
Bright & Blessed Be.
We first saw Pig Dyke at Towersey August 2003 Holly and her friend Charlotte had taken their camping chairs and sat watching Pig Dyke get ready. They were transfixed and Holly fell for Rob. Who wouldn't? He was charming and lovely to look at with and without the characteristic coat and make-up. That autumn at "Folk in the Fall" at Queen Elizabeth Hall on the South Bank we took Holly and some of her friends for her 8th birthday bash (all in kit of course)... Rob had made a picture of Pig Dyke and put "happy birthday Holly" and the date on it... He had made a video and presented that too. She was beside herself and kept these treasures (with the later CDs) at the head of her bed... she was truly in love!
From that moment on we stalked Pig Dyke and turned up at as many gigs that we could get to from West London and we became the Fan Club. The energy he put into his music was unique and we loved it, it sounded fresh every time he played it. Rob's easy going nature meant we fell into a friendship which although it has been all too short was a good one. We spent long long hours talking about films, sport and of course endlessly about Pig Dyke. At festivals we would sit together outside the tent sometimes until dawn. At Sidmouth (probably to the annoyance of other campers) we laughed all night .. God knows what about - a dancing mechanical turkey had something to do with it. But most of all he loved home, and the Fen skies, we all lay out one night looking at shooting stars.
I hardly ever saw Rob play the melodeon when it wasn't for Pig Dyke but one night at Broadstairs we were talking about his Cotswold days and he played a tune and Helen danced. It was a clear moonlit night and a lovely, poignant, but brief, interlude which for some reason stayed with me. On the news of his death I wrote this:
This melodeon is silent now
Boxed and closed forever
The coat and gloves lie still and gather dust
No more will we witness the dance
Our prancing steps are leaden, silent and still
The tenderness of the ungloved hand
But as we listen to the tunes left behind the dance moves on
Hand passes over hand and with tear-stained faces
we look up bravely to greet a new Fen dawn
Rob was driven by perfection and in so many respects we can say he reached his full potential, it was a privilege to know him. However, we and the world didn't come up to his expectations... we always thought he would get well and be the old Rob again. I believe latterly he found happiness and was turning the corner.... but now he is gone and we miss him. Sorry Rob, we could have done more......
I remember the times going back many years when Rob and his friends spent hours and hours looking at the stars and just sharing a companionable silence or being silly and laughing till we cried. We usually crawled into our beds in the small hours of the morning. We never cared that we had a full days dancing ahead of us - just spending times with friends was more important.
He had that same stance that Mike Hurry had - leaning over the melodeon so that he was at one with the instrument. His music unique, uplifting and inspiring. In tune with the dance and the dancers.
As with the loss of any special friend we can never share those special times again but they will always be printed in our hearts forever. My memories of Rob will be brought to mind time and time again, sometimes in the quiet of the night and sometimes when Pig Dyke are together and recalling festivals, bookings, practice nights, new years eve and all the other times that we spent with Rob. There will be laughter and more tears as we continue to remember him.
I will never forget him and like Mike Hurry he will always hold a special place in my heart.
A tribute to someone special, someone unique - until we meet again.
I have known you for 17 years from my early days when we danced as Yaxley Morris and Herbaceous Border with Pig Dyke kit being worn for only a few days in the year around Straw Bear. What will I do without you, you always knew when to ring and I had Isaac wet from his bath, it was almost as though you were psychic.
Your music always lifted me when I was tired and hot and just wanted to sit with my feet in a bucket of water - somewhere I found more energy to dance.
I remember that evening when Helen danced for you in the moonlight, it was very special and after you had finished playing and Helen dancing there was a companionable silence to what we had witnessed.
One fond memory I will treasure is on May Day a few years ago in a coffee shop in Cambridge sharing a kitkat with you - would love to have had a photo of that, but the memory is enough.
God rest my friend - until we meet again...
I just heard from Debbi about Rob's death. I'm so sorry. He was a person around whom a lot of energy flowed - and I can't quite imagine the effects that his death will have on all of you as individuals and as a group.
We being on the outside, of course, only saw, heard and felt the positive energy - which we will miss tremendously. And the good thing about musicians who write tunes, is that if you can hum some of their music you can feel like you still have a part of them with you.
love to you all,
We had only seen him playing a couple of times, but really enjoyed his distinct & individual style.
You must all be feeling the loss. We just wanted to offer our condolences.
Karen & Ian Downham
Rhubarb Tarts Molly
We happened to be in the showers at the Sidmouth campground at the same time one morning and we were chatting when Helen called in and needed to speak with him about something. He took his washcloth and held it over his genitals like a fig leaf and and carried on as people came and went about him. I recall saying to myself, "I like this man".
Steve Levy, Orion Sword, USA
Rita and Peter Jackson (ex members now living in Mass USA)
When Handsome Molly came to Straw Bear for the first time in 1998 we were dazzled by the excitement of Pig Dyke performances, all "color" and whirl, with driving uplifting music. We were grateful for the amazingly gracious and generous hospitality we were offered by the whole team (after all, no one knew us). Except for Rob, the brooding presence at the center of that music. Curiously, I think Rob had not spoken to any of us, though we were too busy to notice.
Years later, when I had become the "token" American on the team and had begun showing up (with perhaps alarming regularity) in Peterborough during a particularly late night gathering at Tony and Jan's we looked through photos and recalled that first trip. In his usual self-deprecating manner Rob proceeded to apologize for his rude behaviour. Becoming increasingly elaborate in his apologies, and thinking of more grandious ways of showing how sorry he was (something about flying to the US to apologize to George Bush directly) we ended up dissolving into riotous laughter. Over the years after that we referred often to that night, again with laughter. And we became great friends. Rob did work for an American magazine, which seemed to add to our connection. We teased each other about the cultural differences between the US and England. We exchanged phone calls and emails, especially during the last 5 months, when I've been dealing with the aftermath of breast cancer and he was expressing great concern, and I in turn was concerned with his problems.
We all have wonderful memories of times with Rob. He was incredibly talented, both as a graphic artist and as a musician. I don't know why, but he was always mercilessly hard on himself. I feel lucky to have known him, and I will miss him. But as Stine said, humming his tunes can make us feel like a part of him is still with us. And that's what I will be doing.
I have so many happy memories of Rob from that time but these particular ones spring to mind:
May Day in Cambridge when we went punting - I swear I wet my knickers we laughed so much.When I brought an infeasibly large rug in Portugal and Rob (bless him) managed to get it in his suitcase and carried it all the way home for me.The day he took me to Parsons Drove in his sports car and we discussed thighs.The passion he put into those Straw Bear Friday night plays and his devastation when one year the pyrotechnic failed to go off on the night.
Rob wasn't just gorgeous to look at he had a gorgeous personality to match .He was the best melodeon player I've ever heard. We were so proud he was our musician.
Rob drew a picture of me in Molly kit when I left Yaxley - it is one of my most treasured possessions (even more so now ). The Pig Dyke CD he sold me saw me through the worst days of morning sickness - I never did get around to thanking him .....
The last time I saw Rob was at Sidmouth a few years ago, I'm so glad I gave him a big kiss and cuddle.
Alison Hillier (as was) , Hampshire
It hasn't hit me yet, but I am absolutely devastated. I met Pig Dyke through Tom and Sarah at Sidmouth. They held a fantastic workshop and we danced out as the most interesting and rag tag molly group you could imagine.
Rob was absolutely great. I have fond memories of hanging out with Rob, and his then partner Helen , and Tony and Jan, all members of Pig Dyke, and I can honestly say, I felt totally at home with them all, and felt one of the team.
Rob had his problems, which I think contributed to his death, but I have wonderful memories of him. He was so kind to me as a new friend to the Pig Dyke Team, talked music with me as one musician to another, made time for me when talking to him and never made me feel small, and he gave amazing hugs.
I am knocked for six.
Rest in Peace, Rob. May your spirit be at peace.
There's going to be an enormous Rob-shaped space at Festivals and
from Abigail's Gothic Violin blog, Feb 6, 2008
We would like to thank you for being part of our side for five years. Although not a dancer, you understood the dancers and your music was full of life; you made the traditional tunes your own. We will remember the fun we had dancing to your music both during practices and at public events - when we shared achievements like winning the Gordon Crowther memorial staff. There were also the social times like walking in Yorkshire and Derbyshire and New Year parties. Morris was so important in your life and you shared your enthusiasm with us.
love from Avril, Jo, Kelvin, Nicki, Patsy, Una
I have just visited Pig Dyke's website and was shocked to hear of the sad news about Rob. His presence and skills are a memory of Pig Dyke's performances that will always be with me. My first sight of Pig Dyke filled me with admiration and a feeling that traditional dance was indeed a living tradition that could be taken to new heights. I saw Rob as the driving force behind the image and the energy. His passing is a great loss to us all.
I can't express enough how much I feel that Pig Dyke promotes the future of traditional dance. Rob was, maybe reluctantly, the face of Pig Dyke in vision and music. Please let his image continue and expand the general English folk dance scene.
Harwich Morris Men, Soken Molly Gang & Good Easter Molly Gang